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Timing is Everything: Tips for Successful Introduction of Solid Foods

Posted on 29 May 2008 by jenjen

Getting a healthy start at the family table is important for infants. Parents play a major role in the development of healthy habits—right from the beginning. Entrance into the wide world of solid food is a major milestone for baby, but it is important to enter into this new territory with clear goals in mind.

Generally speaking, infants begin eating sold foods between the ages of four and six months.  The American Academy of Pediatrics—the go-to source of all healthy suggestions baby-related—recommends beginning solids no earlier than four to six months to avoid food allergies and other complications. Additionally, many pediatricians suggest giving cereal as a food item rather than adding it to the bottle. Signs of readiness to eat solid foods include: the ability to hold head up unassisted, showing interest in the food others eat at mealtime, reaching a weight that is double that of baby’s birth-weight, and loss of the tongue reflex that prevents baby from properly eating solid foods rather than drinking them.  It is important to remember that baby, even at six months, will receive most—if not all–of his or her daily nutritional needs from breast milk or formula. Food is a novelty item being introduced, not a primary source of energy.

After baby has reached a stage when solid food can be introduced, the American Academy of Pediatrics suggests that children begin with baby cereal. Dry, mixable, single grain rice baby cereal from the baby food aisle of the grocery store is the best bet for the first feedings. Leaving more complex baby cereals including wheat and barley may stave off food allergy reactions in very young babies. Of course, cereals from the adult breakfast aisle are not recommended because they do not meet the needs of a growing infant at this stage in development.

Texture and consistency are extremely important for the first feedings. Adding water, breast milk, or formula to the cereal, parents should take care to ensure the cereal is not overly lumpy or thick as this might prove difficult to swallow.

The American Academy of Pediatrics, most pediatricians, moms, and baby food cookbooks recommend introducing only one food at a time. Each single food should be served over the course of a few days. Taking this slow approach helps caregivers keep a watchful eye for dangerous food allergies. Some common food allergies are soy, wheat, milk, tree nut, peanut, egg, and shellfish.  Allergic reactions in baby can take the form of loose, runny stools (diarrhea), vomiting, or even hives. If a parent introduces a food and shortly thereafter the child experiencing any of the aforementioned symptoms, they should call their pediatrician for advice. Food allergies can be serious and need to be addressed quickly.

In the book Mommy Made and Daddy Too: Home Cooking for A Healthy Baby & Toddler, a book written by parents Martha and David Kimmel for parents which has been helping ease children into solid food since 1990, the authors recommend starting vegetables after the first two to three months of cereals. The idea is simple but elegant in its straightforwardness: leave the sweetest things and food items with the highest likelihood of allergy for last to keep baby safe and avoid developing a sweet tooth before the first tooth even sprouts! The Kimmels suggest this general rule of thumb for introduction of fruits and veggies, “yellow first, orange and pale next, dark green and red last.” They also advise dropping the following ingredients from baby’s diet in the first year entirely: white table sugar, artificial sweeteners, corn syrup, shellfish, eggs, fried foods, unripe fruit, chocolate, candy of any kind, honey, potato chips, tomatoes, corn, and processed meats like hot dogs or bologna.

It is particularly important to avoid the use of honey in baby food during the first year because, as the American Academy of Family Physicians notes, “Although the worldwide incidence of infant botulism is rare, the majority of cases are diagnosed in the United States. An infant can acquire botulism by ingesting Clostridium botulinum spores, which are found in soil or honey products.” Infant botulism is no laughing matter, and while honey may have a sweet taste and many benefits to adults, it should not be given to infants under one year of age for this reason.

Another important point parents should take into consideration is their own diet. Beyond maintaining a good health for the parents’ own needs, mothers, fathers, and other caregivers need to be role models from the very start. Giving baby a healthy start means making healthy choices. Children model the things they see in their environment.  A child old enough to eat table food will notice his or her parent’s choices and mimic them—for better or worse. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends, “For your child’s sake as well as your own, cut out your salt use and watch how much fat you consume. Provide a good role model by eating a variety of healthy foods.”

There are two main options in baby food for parents: buy it at the store or make it at home. Many recipe books exist on the market for those interested in making their own home made baby food masterpieces.  It can be cost effective and relatively simple. Meanwhile, store bought baby food has come a long way in recent times and also provides a flexible list of menu options for infants.

Recipes for home made baby food exist by the score on both internet sites such as http://www.wholesomebabyfood.com/ or in the bookstore or library with titles like Mommy Made and Daddy, Too or Simply Natural Baby Food.  Homemade foods can coincide family dinners with similar ingredients and therefore be made at the same time or made ahead of time and stored for later use. Generally speaking, homemade baby foods consist of cooked vegetables or fruits that have been reduced to a nice glob of mush. This means that parents planning to go the do-it-yourself route will need a blender. Other handy items include: a paring knife, slotted spoons, ladles, spatulas, measuring cups, graters, colanders, strainers, saucepans with lids, and a vegetable steamer. Storage generally takes the form of freezing or placing in the refrigerator.

Buying baby food at the store is a good choice for busy parents and offers a wide selection of foods. Store bought foods can be used in conjunction with homemade foods, as well. Organic baby foods exist for interested parents in addition to more traditional baby foods. The packaging is portable and easily stored in the pantry or the refrigerator. As with any packaged food, parents should be careful not to purchase swollen packaging (can indicate spoilage) or packages with broken seals (indicative of possible tampering).

Baby’s first foods are his or her gateway into a healthy life filled with all the wonders of solid foods. Foods introduced at this age will shape children’s eating patterns for the future. Whether making food at home or buying quality foods in the baby food aisle at the store, making good choices today will provide children with a good nutrition as they grow and healthier future in the years to come.


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How To Improve Your Child’s Self Esteem

Posted on 21 May 2008 by Jane Sharp

As parents, we all hope that our children will be sensitive and loving, but with a skin tough enough to handle problems.  We also want our children to feel great about themselves and who they are.  Self-esteem is an important thing to nurture in a child and is a combination of a child feeling loved and being confident in his or her own abilities.  Much of this feeling is molded, instilled and inspired by a child’s parents.  Child expert Sue Davidson says that nurturing and improving your child’s self-esteem is something that will stick with them for life.  The development of their self-esteem is important and is something they will base many different things on throughout their lives.

“When children feel that their parents love and believe in them, the child will love and believe in himself or herself.  When a child feels as though a parent doubts his or her capability, that child will also doubt their capability.  This is something that is important for parents to recognize and pay attention to,” says Sue.  So, with something that is this important, how do you ensure that you’re doing it right?  The first thing you should realize is that while it is important, there is no reason to feel as if you’re walking on eggshells.  Simply take opportunities given to you and use them to work on self-esteem.  Sue offers some valuable tips on how to improve your child’s self-esteem.

Unrealistic Expectations

Don’t place unrealistic expectations on your child.  When you do this, he or she will most likely fail to live up to those expectations.  This will make him or her doubt their ability.  This can be a real issue with self-esteem.  Expect your child to do his or her best, and that’s it.  Instill in them the wisdom that winning or losing is not as important as having fun trying and trying your best.  Anything over that is just extra.  Of course, should your child win, you want to praise them and show how proud you are.  If they lose, you want to praise them and show how proud you are!  One important thing you can say to your child is, “Now you can be really proud of yourself.”  What this tells your child is that you are very proud of them and that how they feel about their performance in any situation is what is most important.

Pointing Out What is Unique

One important thing that helps improve self-esteem is the knowledge that there are special and unique characteristics in each one of us.  Teaching your child this important wisdom is as easy as pointing out their own unique abilities and talents.  Take the time to do this when there is a great opportunity.  When you notice the things your child is great at or is especially talented at, they will notice them, too.  When your child understands that he or she has special talents or is particularly great in one aspect or another, their self-esteem grows.  So, tell your child what a great job he or she did in different situations.

Role Modeling

Much of what you do and how you feel about yourself will be transferred to your children.  If you make statements often about how stupid or inadequate you are, your child will absorb that attitude and feeling.  They will then recreate those feelings in the way they feel about themselves.  This is something you don’t want.  When a child sees a parent with a high regard for themselves, these children are more likely to develop a great self-confidence.  As James A. Baldwin said, “Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.”  Show your child how you value him or her and how you value yourself.  This will most definitely carry over.

Your child’s self-esteem is important, and you are the greatest person to help develop the self-esteem within your child.  By simply being confident about your child’s abilities and loving your child (which is a given), you can foster a great self-esteem from childhood to adulthood.


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Winners of “The Laughing Game” Giveaway goes to…

Posted on 19 May 2008 by Gagazine Admin

  1. Sarah Stern Says:
    My son thinks “This Little Piggy” is hysterical!
  2. Linda Moeller Says:
    I’m double jointed & do funny games with my fingers like making them dance.

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Conception Tips

Posted on 19 May 2008 by Jane Sharp

Becoming a parent is one of the most joyful times that we, as individuals can experience. That time can be marked by stress, however, if you and your partner are having a difficult time in conceiving a child. As a matter of fact, this can become a source of such tension that it actually comes between you as partners. If you’re looking for some conception tips that will help you in your quest to have a child, there are some that you can do that will help you naturally. The best part about it is, many of these conception tips are based on scientific principles and not simply on natural healing techniques.

One of the most important things that you can do it whenever you are trying to conceive a child is to stay hydrated. Far too many people spend the majority of their life in a dehydrated state and this can affect many different areas of their body, including their ability to produce and egg or sperm. Make sure that you drink eight to 10 glasses of clean, clear water every day and maintain this regimen throughout your lifetime. Not only will it help you in the conception department, it will help you in many areas of your health that will become evident once you start drinking the water.

Another thing that you can do in order to increase your odds of conceiving a child is to supplement with various vitamins and minerals. You would be surprised at how deficient many of us are in these vital nutrients. Taking vitamins such as C, B and E will increase your odds of conceiving a child because your body will have the things that it needs in order to maintain a healthy cycle.

Another thing that can help you with conception is for the female to experience an orgasm once the male has ejaculated. The contractions that are realized during this orgasm will help to move the sperm up into the uterus and toward the egg that we hope is waiting to receive it.

One other thing that you can do if you are having an especially difficult time in conceiving a child is to go on a fast. Although this has not been proven scientifically, many people have experienced conception that occurs as a result of being on one of these fasts. The most common one is the master cleanse, otherwise known as the lemonade diet. When all other methods have failed, this one may do the trick for you.


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This Week’s Active Journal Winner Goes To…

Posted on 18 May 2008 by Gagazine Admin

This week’s Active Journal Winner goes to hockiemac. You can visit hockiemac’s Journal at http://journals.gagazine.com/hockiemack/

Please email us to confirm your mailing address and we will rush you the $10 gift card to Babies R Us.

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Bugeting for a Baby

Posted on 15 May 2008 by Cathy Ley

You find yourself walking resolutely across the department store, an enormous stuffed bear tucked under your arm. You set it on the counter and straighten the polka-dotted ribbon that is tied around its neck. It will cost more than your favorite pair of running shoes, but you know you must have it. That is, the baby must have it. Your eyes widen a bit when the clerk announces the total, but you quickly hand over your credit card. The bear will look just perfect when it’s propped up in the corner of the nursery. (Its yellow polka dot tie is almost an exact match to the new crib bumpers.)  You predict that once the baby’s room is done, the spending is certain to slow down.

“I mean,” you think to yourself, “how much could such a little person cost?”

You might be surprised to know that the U.S. Department of Agriculture can answer that question for you. Since 1969, it has published a report called “The Annual Expenditures on Children by Families.” The report estimates the cost of raising a child from birth to age 17. Year after year, this report reveals that a little person can cost a whole lot of money indeed.

The most recent “Annual Expenditures on Children” report was published in April 2007. It states that the total cost of raising a child from birth to 17 years old is between $200,000 and $300,000 - depending on a family’s income and where they live.

Big numbers like those are overwhelming, but new parents can look at a smaller picture and reflect on the annual expenses of raising a child in order to plan wisely. Again, the USDA report comes in handy. It states that families with pre-tax incomes of less than $44,500 spend about $7,580 annually on their 0-2 year old children. Households earning $44,500-74,900 spend $10,600 on children this age and those who make more than $74,900 spend $15,760 a year on these young children. Across income groups, expenditures increase as children grow older.

After weeks of broken sleep, your first instinct might be to say you’re too tired to think about how your new baby might affect your finances. You just want him to sleep through the night; you can’t begin to think about how you might pay for his violin lessons someday. But, given numbers like those in the USDA report, all new parents should stop, make a strong cup of coffee, and give their financial future a long, steady look.

A NEW BUDGET FOR A NEW FAMILY CONFIGURATION

If you haven’t used a budget to manage your family’s finances in the past, this is a good time to start. New parents are often surprised at how the arrival of their baby affects spending in all areas of their lives.

Expenses that you might consider “fixed” increase with each new family member. Utility bills rise as soon as baby comes home. Couples use more water and often maintain warmer homes in the winter and cooler temperatures in the summer to keep their young children comfortable. Parents spend more money on gas than before having children – either because of a larger, safer car – or because of new trips to daycare and other child-related destinations. Health care costs rise with more frequent co-pays for medication and doctor visits. Not all insurance covers required immunizations either. Even entertainment spending grows when, on top of the cost of a night out, you must pay a babysitter.

Not only do existing expenses grow but significant, new ones are added. Two new and large everyday baby expenses are, of course, diapers and formula.

New parents can expect to spend up to $2500 on diapers between birth and the time a child is potty-trained. Although older babies require far fewer diaper changes than a newborn, most toddlers go through a long, transitional time before being fully potty-trained. During this time they wear expensive, “pull on,” training diapers.

Using cloth diapers with a diaper service costs approximately the same amount as disposable diapers. Parents who choose this option do so, primarily, to lessen the environmental impact of their baby. The cheapest solution to diapering is to wash your own cloth diapers. This can save more than $1,000 over time, but, clearly, it isn’t a commitment many parents are willing to make.

Aside from the costs of diapers and wipes, another cause of “sticker shock” for new parents is the cost of formula and baby food. A conservative estimate of the cost of formula for a baby’s first year is $1,500. An obvious solid financial choice, then, is to breastfeed your baby. As well as saving money on formula, the health benefits of breastfeeding are numerous. (For more on the rewards of breastfeeding, see the La Leche League website at www.llli.org.)  Even when factoring in the costs of nursing clothing and renting or buying a breast pump, breastfeeding provides significant savings to parents.

If breastfeeding isn’t an option, parents can save money on formula by:

  • visiting the manufacturers’ websites (most offer money-saving coupons),
  • buying powdered formula in bulk from warehouse stores like Costco and Sam’s Club, and
  • asking pediatricians to recommend a generic or store-brand formula.

When your baby graduates to baby food, consider making your own. Buy a few jars of baby food and get to know your child’s favorites. Note the consistency of the food and begin to experiment at home. Cooking fruits and vegetables, mashing them, and then freezing small portions in ice cube trays is an easy and cheap way to nourish your baby. Your pediatrician will recommend which foods – and in what order – to introduce to your baby at different ages.

Financial planning experts agree that making and keeping a budget is an important way for anyone – especially those suddenly faced with providing for a baby - to keep their spending under control. There are many books and websites that offer budgeting information and tools.  Some of the better websites that offer free budgeting tools are www.budgettracker.com, www.debtsteps.com, and www.betterbudgeting.com.

THINK LONG AND HARD BEFORE BUYING EQUIPMENT AND TOYS FOR BABY

Your budget will likely include a category for “miscellaneous” expenses. The excitement of preparing for baby makes some parents throw their usual financial caution to the wind and overspend in this category. You may be swept away by that adorable stuffed animal or convinced that you need every possible safety device to protect your child.

In order to keep from breaking the bank, new parents should pause before buying toys or gadgets for their babies. Although their catalog descriptions claim that you can’t live without them, items like wipes warmers, video baby monitors, fancy diaper pails, and electronic play mats are not in fact “essentials.” Ask friends with older children which baby gadgets and toys they found most helpful.

SEEK OUT QUALITY, USED BABY GEAR

You likely have a neighbor or relative who uses the term “garage sale” as a verb – as in “I love to garage sale.” When you’ve decided to buy something for baby, tell this friend what you are looking for – a certain type of stroller, a bicycle trailer, a high chair, or a bath seat. This will give your friend new purpose in her weekend quests and save you a lot of money. When you drive past a garage sale yourself, slow down and take a quick look.  If you see numerous baby items on display, jump out of the car and take a look.  Read the ads in the local paper. Call around or check local churches’ websites – many hold annual sales of children’s goods. Check www.ebay.com for clothing, furniture, or other necessities.  (You can even buy formula coupons on ebay – check it out!)

Babies grow fast and that bouncy chair or baby bath seat – as useful as it is for a month or two – will soon be relegated to the basement or attic. Don’t bother to buy it new. If someone offers you hand-me-downs, always accept them. Sort them by size and keep them in labeled boxes or bins where you will see them – perhaps in your baby’s closet.

Your baby’s first smile is indeed priceless, but all the paraphernalia that keeps her safe and healthy can cost a small fortune. Plan wisely, and next time you come face to face with that giant stuffed teddy bear, you might want to consider turning around and giving him a friendly wave as you walk out of the store


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Winners of the “Boy vs. Girl” Giveaway goes to…

Posted on 12 May 2008 by Gagazine Admin

 1.  Kitty Says:
I’ve always wanted a little boy. I just think they are so cute. I love the thought of him spending time with his father - fishing, camping, basketball. My first baby was a boy and I can’t wait for him and my husband to do those father/son things. It’s so cute!

2. Sky Says:
I wanted a boy first. Being the oldest child and only girl, I knew I’d know what to do with a boy! I was afraid that if it was a girl, I’d be clueless! We ended up with our boy, Johnny is now 8 and now we have a little girl. Paige is 8 months!

Congratulations! Please contact us to claim your prize.

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The Laughing Game Giveaway

Posted on 12 May 2008 by Gagazine Admin

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About the product: Two lucky individuals will each receive one Lullaby CD, valued at $12.99. The CD contains one dozen lullabies to soothe your baby to sleep.

  1. Air on a G String
  2. Canon in D
  3. Come Together
  4. Concerto for Violin and Oboe
  5. Delicate Dreams
  6. Fur Elise
  7. Innocence
  8. Morning Mood
  9. Nocturne Es Dur
  10. Skyward Glance
  11. Supernova
  12. Well Tempered Bach

Are you eligible? You must have a valid email and U.S. mailing address.

How can I win? Leave a comment below and let us know what game(s) you play with your child to get him/her to laugh. Two random people will be selected as winners.

Am I the winner? If you are the winner, your name will be announced in the Winner’s Announcements category on Monday, May 19th, 2008. We will also notify you via email to obtain your mailing address so that we can mail you the CD. You will then have 3 days to respond to confirm your mailing address. Otherwise, you will forfeit your prize and we will select another winner.

When will this giveaway end? Winners will be announced on Monday, May 19th, 2008 at 9:00 pm PST.


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Congrats to Miriama59 Once Again!

Posted on 11 May 2008 by Gagazine Admin

This week’s Active Journal Winner goes to miriama59. You can visit miriama59’s Journal at http://journals.gagazine.com/miriama59/

Please email us to confirm your mailing address and we will rush you the $10 gift card to Babies R Us.

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3 Tips on How to Multitask Effectively

Posted on 10 May 2008 by Jane Sharp

3 Tips on How to Multitask Effectively:

  1. Don’t stress out. You can get things done quicker and more efficient with a clear head.
  2. Map out all the locations of where you need to be and draw out a schedule. You will be able to tackle several tasks at once while being in the same location. It’ll save you a lot of time driving back and forth between tasks.
  3. Keep a to-do list with you so you can check them off as you go. This way, you won’t have to wonder if you’ve completed a specific task or not.

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